When we joined the group, without much he could do to fix the problem, he was harassed until he felt so angry that he decided to stop. And that was not just leave the group, but he stopped playing for the rest of the day. He was simply having trouble getting his triggers for entering archways working, and had no chopper, but was given quite a hard time. In a game where it seems people want to encourage new players to stick around this is exactly the opposite kind of behavior that should be shown, especially by those in positions of power of those who are staples in the community. Below I have copy/pasted the chat from group, removing messages like 'SANC IS DOWN' but no actual messages of content. This is conversation happening amidst grouping, which I assure you, was going at a modest pace, even when Forky missed an archway or two. I would always mention it to him in Voice Chat (Which I am always in with him). I also left in a couple of relevant times people looked at his gear or I checked the group for things. ((I also added things in double parenthesis to add notes))
Sochi -- 'we got a newbie chopper for forky?'
Sochi -- 'fandral are you assisting'
Paka -- 'silverwares?'
((Missed an Archway here))
Gorka -- 'see that... severed the head of a fly'
Sochi -- 'people if u dont chop, dont assist, they get out'
Gorka -- 'don't mess with gorka'
Sochi -- 'then'
Paka -- 'fork?'
((Second Archway Missed))
Paka -- 'target thief'
Paka -- 'target herm'
Sochi -- 'forky wont wield chopper and doesnt follow, kick him out pls'
Paka -- 'fork?'
((This was the third archway missed but it's because he thought he had a trigger working, which he didn't. He from here on out has it fixed))
You grouptell: '? He didn't have a trigger for a long time'
You grouptell: 'or a chopper*'
Paka -- 'wield your chopper fork'
((Even though he was never given a chopper, they still expect him to have one))
Taron looks at Forky.
((Oh look, someone is paying attention))
Taron -- 'he has none'
You grouptell: 'lol, right'
Forky -- 'Never got one.'
look forky
((I wanted to be sure myself!!))
You see nothing special about him.
Forky is in excellent condition.
Forky is using:
<used as light> a sphere of bioluminescence..It has a soft glowing aura!
<worn on finger> a ring of braided vipers..It has a soft glowing aura!
<worn on finger> a spiked, golden ring
<worn around neck> a steel torc
<worn around neck> a scarlet half-cloak
<worn on body> a suit of mystic chainmail
<worn on head> a crimson visored helm
<worn on legs> a pair of denim overalls..It has a soft glowing aura!
<worn on feet> a pair of field armor boots
<worn on hands> a pair of sharkskin gloves
<worn on arms> Sleeves of the Clown Lord Marshall
<worn as shield> a shield of yawning death
<worn about body> a serpent skin robe (with a single-striped white sash (Private) attached to it)
<worn about waist> a dull red belt
<worn around wrist> an enchanted elven wristguard (with a little dancing star attached to it)
<worn around wrist> a platinum bracer (with a little dancing star attached to it)
<wielded> an elven short blade..It emits a faint humming sound!
<held> an ivory scarab..It has a soft glowing aura!
<instrument> ebony wood castanets
You attempt to peek at the inventory:
the water pail..It has a soft glowing aura!
a hexagonal shaped token
a hexagonal shaped token
a golden sack
a lion standard..It has a soft glowing aura!
wereboar tusks
Paka -- 'i passed you a macu'
((If he did, where did it go? Forky was here the whole time))
Eq
You are using:
<used as light> a star shaped crystal..It emits a faint humming sound!
<worn on finger> a ring of clouded glass
<worn on finger> a ring of clouded glass
<worn around neck> an amulet of protection (with a purple minidemon brooch attached to it)
<worn around neck> an amulet of protection (with a red minidemon brooch attached to it)
<worn on body> a spiked battle tunic..It has a soft glowing aura!
<worn on head> a prison guard helmet (with a reddish-colored glass eye attached to it)
<worn on legs> red-tassled leggings..It has a soft glowing aura!
<worn on feet> old viking boots
<worn on hands> fingerless leather gloves
<worn on arms> spiked vambraces of dho-tou (with a black arm band attached to it)
<worn as shield> the shield of the ram..It has a soft glowing aura!
<worn about body> a wolfskin robe (with a single-striped white sash (Private) attached to it)
<worn about waist> an ebony sash (with a hummingbird buckle attached to it)
<worn around wrist> a celestial bracelet..It has a soft glowing aura!
<worn around wrist> a celestial bracelet..It has a soft glowing aura!
<wielded> Macuahuitl
<held> a banner of the nineteenth Drow legion
((Oh, he thought he gave Forky the thing he gave me!! I see))
Forky -- 'that was knifey:p'
Forky enters the archway and disappears from sight.
((As you can see here, clearly, his trigger is working now))
Gorka enters the archway and disappears from sight.
Suna enters the archway and disappears from sight.
Sochi enters the archway and disappears from sight.
Imoen enters the archway and disappears from sight.
Crumbs enters the archway and disappears from sight.
<953/953 Life|264/264 Spirit|245/267 Energy||-||-1.5|144221561|264128|-6|+16/+7|20|Mount Olympus>
Fluffy enters the archway and disappears from sight.
Taron enters the archway and disappears from sight.
<953/953 Life|264/264 Spirit|245/267 Energy||-||-1.5|144221561|264128|-6|+16/+7|20|Mount Olympus>
Fandral enters the archway and disappears from sight.
<953/953 Life|264/264 Spirit|245/267 Energy||-||-1.5|144221561|264128|-6|+16/+7|20|Mount Olympus>
You enter the archway and find yourself elsewhere!
Paka -- 'target hep'
Paka -- 'target love'
Paka -- 'anyone got a chopper for fork?'
Paka -- 'target athe'
Taron -- 'Curse this dirty animal!'
Suna -- 'i have sowrd but don't think he can use' ((They are trying to find a weapon for him, but not making effort to actually get one))
Paka -- 'target athe'
Paka -- 'target dio'
Paka -- 'Taron chopped Imoen'
Sochi -- 'Imoen seems to be DEAD!'
Gorka -- 'at least they died on a full stomach'
Sochi -- 'kill the one without a chopper next time'
((A mean comment for no reason))
Paka -- 'still no chopper?'
Crumbs -- 'Rina please, so i can raise Imoen'
Sochi -- 'guess we have no macu'
Taron -- 'there werent many lowbie choppers'
Sochi -- 'or he poofed it or something' ((When could he have poofed it?))
Forky -- 'never got it, but if bothers you that bad I can leave.' ((And here's the point in which he's fed up, no one seems to care (except me)))
Paka -- 'i know i sent ppl to get them, then passed.'
Sochi -- 'i got claws'
Forky utters the words, 'xafe ay candusqarr'
Forky disappears.
Taron -- '3 knives at inn'
group
Group 'chopee chops' is led by Paka and consists of:
(Point) Taron [Wa:9.40 1055hp 229ma 364mv] jacinth/tomb jade tyroch/clam
(Front) Suna [Dr:9.40 1012hp 1065ma 348mv] rhodo/ruby
(Front) Sochi [Ba:8.35 1068hp 740ma 365mv] sb pearl|avent|old pike
(Front) Gorka [Wa:6.39 1223hp 512ma 397mv] csapphire/rcquartz
(Front) Crumbs [Cl:7.20 942hp 914ma 372mv] ---
(Leader) Paka [Ma:9.40 985hp 802ma 348mv] Tourm | Sapphire
Imoen [Ma:2.37 609hp 453ma 71mv] eye agate|chryso|deacon
Fluffy [Dr:9.40 907hp 1116ma 330mv] GY Topaz / S.Ruby / Zeus
Fandral [Dr:3.39 842hp 638ma 267mv] sapphire/tourmaline
Knifey [Wa:1.39 953hp 264ma 261mv] Jet / Obsid
(Absent) Forky [Ba:0.32 540hp 57ma 184mv] malachite
Paka -- 'target spawn'
Paka -- 'loot ppl'
Sochi -- 'on'
Paka -- 'target ares'
Imoen -- 'i guess mirrors don't reduce chances of being chopped

Group 'chopee chops' is led by Paka and consists of:
(Point) Taron [Wa:9.40 989hp 187ma 389mv] jacinth/tomb jade tyroch/clam
(Front) Suna [Dr:9.40 1082hp 1065ma 265mv] rhodo/ruby
(Front) Sochi [Ba:8.35 1064hp 740ma 370mv] sb pearl|avent|old pike
(Front) Gorka [Wa:6.39 1363hp 512ma 401mv] csapphire/rcquartz
(Front) Crumbs [Cl:7.20 1012hp 872ma 290mv] ---
(Leader) Paka [Ma:9.40 1085hp 816ma 351mv] Tourm | Sapphire
Imoen [Ma:2.37 617hp 486ma 65mv] eye agate|chryso|deacon
Fluffy [Dr:9.40 977hp 1125ma 341mv] GY Topaz / S.Ruby / Zeus
Fandral [Dr:3.39 842hp 684ma 259mv] sapphire/tourmaline
Knifey [Wa:1.39 953hp 264ma 256mv] Jet / Obsid
The group goes on, and he rents. That's the end. IF you guys want players to keep playing, this will never work. It doesn't matter how nice you are to someone when they create their character is after they play for a short amount of time you take out your aggression on them or treat them poorly for whatever other reasons you may have. Hopefully next time you'll spend 5 minutes helping a new player in your group instead of potentially driving him away from the game for good, or at least have a less aggressive attitude. The way you act may be 'no big deal' to you, but I assure you, it is a big deal to others.